Crissy is an extraordinary NICU nurse. She has worked in the NICU for 18 years and is currently one of the NICU's flight nurses, who also participates in Unit Committees. What is most apparent in Crissy's character is her presence, sensitivity, and compassion for caring for infants and supporting families during a very vulnerable time in their family's life.
Recently, Crissy cared for two infants whose lives would be shortened due to their diagnosis. She partnered with the families to honor their wishes and to ensure they were actively involved in their babies' care. She was instrumental in communicating and collaborating with the medical team when caring for these babies, as well as the families. She was also an advocate for the infants and heard the needs and desires of the family. Given these two situations, dealing with end of life in a NICU is difficult and can be extremely emotional. Infants are not supposed to die. She walked with each family and supported them throughout this process with grace. She allowed the families to spend time with their babies and honored their wishes and desires. Crissy provided family time, which is much needed during these difficult times when parents must say good-bye. She ensured the families and the infants were comfortable.
During these particular situations, Crissy actively participated in creating memories of their infant by taking photographs, obtaining additional footprints and handprints, engaging the family and extended family to participate in the infant's life. This included having siblings meet their siblings before their sibling died.
Of the gifts Crissy has created are beautiful legacy items such as plaster impressions molds of the infant's feet, hands, and facial profile. This is a talent that takes time. I can only imagine that when these plaster impressions are created, Crissy remains connected to this infant and family. There is a lot of love that is devoted to creating these masterpieces, which I always say is the infant's artwork with the assistance of Crissy.
Dealing with end of life in the NICU is not easy. It takes someone very special and caring, such as Crissy to provide this special and meaningful approach to the NICU families going through such an ordeal.
Crissy is a role model for other staff as well. She is also vulnerable when she expresses her feelings and emotions when caring for these families. She is not afraid to share tears with the family and to really express the love she has for her profession and the love she has for these infants and families.
I am so proud to be a colleague of Crissy and admire her ability to walk with families in a variety of situations. Sanford Health can be honored to have such a gifted and caring nurse.